When you and your partner have decided to commit to marriage, it’s a cause for celebration. For many couples, gay or not, getting married isn’t only about planning a wedding. There are other events to consider, such as honeymoons, showers, rehearsal dinners, bachelor or bachelorette parties, and more. Your costs can add up quickly, so it’s important to find ways to save, especially for an engagement party. Consider these ideas for a pre-wedding party that’s kind to your pockets.

Exploring the History of the Engagement Party

Sometimes called a betrothal party, an engagement party was a way for the loved ones of a couple to meet and get to know each other before the wedding. Traditionally, the parents of the bride hosted the engagement party. What appeared to be a typical gathering turned into a surprise announcement for invitees. These days it’s common for a couple to host their own event. Their intent to marry has been already publicized, and attendees may bring small and inexpensive presents. Legal marriage for gay couples is a relatively new thing in the US, and you should take every opportunity to acknowledge this big step in your relationship, including an affordable but memorable engagement party.

Taking It Back

When weather permits, a backyard get-together is a great way to celebrate your upcoming wedding. An outdoor space is a good place for several people to gather, especially during a pandemic. A backyard event is casual and relaxed, the right environment for you to introduce loved ones. If you’re wanting to surprise guests with an announcement, inviting them to a barbecue or crawfish boil provides a good cover.

Pushing Your “Luck”

If you have friends who know their way around a kitchen, consider hosting a potluck engagement party. Invite your loved ones to make simple dishes for sharing in a laid back setting such as a friend’s place, a park, or a community clubhouse. It’s another opportunity for you to introduce loved ones to each other. This type of gathering is also symbolic of your future life together as married partners surrounded by your village. 

Brunching and Munching

Who doesn’t love a good brunch? Celebrating love and commitment over cocktails and delicious food sounds like a great time! If you and your partner want a more elegant vibe, consider reserving a table or a room at your favorite upscale restaurant. Guests can pay for themselves, controlling your costs. Hiring a caterer is also an option here, but costs can add up quickly if there are a lot of people involved. If you or your boo are up to the task, you could also prepare the food, including premade pastries, fruit, and simple fare such as pancakes and other breakfast staples. 

Screaming for Ice Cream

An ice cream social is a fun and affordable way to celebrate your future nuptials with friends and family. Enjoying a cone filled with cold, creamy sweetness is still one of life’s greatest joys, especially on a warm day. Set up a station where invitees can create sundaes, floats, and banana splits to enjoy while socializing and expressing their excitement for your future union. Consider including non-dairy alternatives for vegans and the lactose intolerant. 

Going Virtual With Your Engagement Party

Virtual gatherings are always a good option for celebrations. They accommodate those who may be immunocompromised as well as those located remotely. A virtual engagement party is low cost, and the biggest hurdle to success is the reliability of your internet connection.

Committing to life together with your special someone is always cause for celebration, especially with an engagement party. The good news is you and your partner don’t need to break the bank for this celebration. You can focus on having a good time and being loved by your circle of friends and family.