While LGBTQ+ marriage ceremonies are relatively new with respect to being legally recognized across the nation, they are not immune from emerging and evolving trends. It’s been said that love is a many-splendored thing. This certainly includes the nuptials of two queer hearts coming together to formally commit to one another in front of the people they hold dear. Whether you’re planning to tie the knot in the not-too-distant future or you work in the wedding industry, here are some LGBTQ+ marriage trends you should be aware of.

Exchanging Vows in Vibrancy

For ages, the color white has typically been associated with weddings. From the bridal gown to flowers to the multi-tiered cake and more, white, ivory and cream have been the go-to colors for décor. The rainbow has become an icon of pride around the world. It should come as no surprise that queer couples are opting for bold, vibrant colors for their nuptials. Between apparel and motifs, deeply saturated reds, yellows, oranges and other bright colors will reign for the foreseeable future. A wedding marks the first day of one of life’s most exciting adventures. The category is bold, vibrant and vivid!

Ditching the Party

While wedding parties are a major aspect of marriage ceremonies, fewer queer couples include this element on their big day. The idea of having a maid of honor or best man and an attending court is viewed as old-fashioned and reinforcing of outdated gender roles. Unsurprisingly, LGBTQ+ celebrations prioritize inclusiveness, especially for those who are non-binary, genderfluid or gender-nonconforming. You will see more ceremonies where the happy couple walks each other down the aisle. Say goodbye to gender being a factor in a person’s role in the wedding.

Putting a Ring on It Differently For Your LGBTQ+ Marriage Ceremony

For queer and non-queer couples alike, the ring stands out as an iconic symbol of a lasting union. While many LGBTQ+ couples still opt for engagement rings, several have moved away from the practice of proposing. Like many other wedding customs, the proposal is based on gender roles that are either considered old-fashioned or simply don’t apply. Some couples may still formally ask the question and present an engagement ring as a surprise, but look for them to do so as equals, figuratively and visually.

Eloping and Exploring

Strictly speaking, eloping is not a new concept, especially for LGBTQ+ couples who had to pledge their love in secret. More couples are turning their elopements into short vacations where they and a few other people participate in outdoor activities. Imagine saying “I do” in a private ceremony atop a mountain you and your partner just climbed. Follow up the ceremony by scuba diving into the deep, symbolic of the two of you plunging into a new chapter of life. Gone is the stigma of eloping with the love of your life. Embrace the larger thrill of life together with a shared adventure!

Adding a Personal Spin To LGBTQ+ Marriage Ceremonies

LGBTQ+ weddings are emphasizing personal touches over wedding customs. Organic ceremonies where participants and guests are more relaxed are becoming the norm. The focus here is on comfort, authenticity and simplicity. This will be reflected in everything from attire to the menu and more. Couples who are especially fun-loving may opt for unique and quirky details such as “walking” down the aisle in a tractor or having a barefoot alfresco gathering. Instead of the traditional white cake flavored with vanilla and almond, you may see different options that emphasize local flavors and sustainability.

LGBTQ+ marriage ceremonies will change as more couples tie the knot. When it comes to legal unions, the requirements are simple and straightforward. The details are entirely up to the couple, and given humanity’s capacity for creativity, the options are nearly endless.