Weddings are a big part of life. While you may have been a guest at dozens of weddings in the past, you still might not have a great idea of what to expect from your own special day. There are so many emotions involved with this type of event that it can be difficult to know which direction to turn at times. If your wedding is fast approaching, like most couples you’ll wish you knew some of these tips to calm your nerves and anticipate what is on the horizon for you and your partner.

Following the advice of couples who have gone through this process before can be a lovely way to find the peace of mind you deserve and prepare yourself for what is about to go down on your special day. You will not always know what is in store, so take a moment to feel inspired and enlightened by these simple bits of advice.

The Final Countdown

While planning for your wedding, you probably have experienced a great number of emotions. Stress has a way of making a person feel emotionally sensitive. One moment you could be laughing with your partner about where to seat various guests, and the next you are crying with frustration over floral arrangements. This is typical for many couples, and it is nothing to feel bad about. Still, you might not realize that the most emotionally stressful moment is still lurking around in the shadows and waiting to make itself known.

Most couples wish they knew that the most stressful moment during a wedding is about ten minutes before the start of the ceremony. Walking down the aisle is a big deal, and it can lead people to some extreme emotional states. You may believe yourself to be a calm and collected person, but when you hear the fanfare of the organ and prepare yourself for the walk, you may feel totally overcome. To stay calm, try and remember why you are doing this in the first place and what awaits you after you’ve completed the walk forward.

The Outpouring

By the time the day of your wedding arrives, you are going to be well aware of who will be in attendance. You’ve probably spent months beating your head against the wall over guest lists and seating charts. This means you will know who you can expect to see at your wedding. Still, there is a kind of magic that happens at a wedding in regards to guests. No matter who you will see and how often you see them on a regular basis, you will not be prepared for how much love you are going to feel.

Ask any couple who has gone through a wedding ceremony and they will tell you the same. Guests want to make couples feel happy and loved on their wedding days. Seeing all of your closest friends and family members come together and wish you well with your partner can be an invigorating experience. Use the energy that you feel to your advantage. Spread the love as much as possible and keep the night moving in a direction that helps everyone feel happy about your union and the lives you are beginning together.

Relax

Your wedding is definitely going to be a stressful time, but it does not have to be a surprise. Knowing what to expect from your special day can be a great way for you to focus your mind and see the best possible results from your event. Remember that the last ten minutes before the ceremony begins will be the most stressful. If you can get through those ten minutes, you will be ready to experience an outpouring of love and encouragement that will carry you and your partner into the throes of marital bliss.