Each relationship might be unique, but there are many factors that couples have in common. Music, for example, tends to play a huge part in the love journeys of most people. From the songs you heard on the night you first met to the tunes that have underscored important moments along the way, the soundtrack to your relationship tells a very specific story. That is why you should dedicate time and effort to pick out the best music for your wedding and create a soundtrack you’ll remember. While there are plenty of challenging aspects of planning your big day, selecting songs to play throughout the festivities shouldn’t be an obstacle. Use these tips to guide your decision and feel confident in what you choose. 

Use Songs of Sentimental Importance

To kick things off, focus on the obvious songs. There are several moments throughout the ceremony and reception that you will want to add music to. If you’ve known for years that you want to walk down the aisle to “Best Day of My Life” by Bright Eyes, then write it down and move on instead of deliberating. You may also want to write out a list of favorite songs that you and your partner have. Review the list together and determine what tunes fit for the first dance, cutting the cake, and other key moments. 

Taking a quick walk down memory lane together can be fun. The longer you’ve been with your partner, the more likely it is that details of pertinent moments have become hazier than you’d like. Talk, look at old pictures, and try to remember the music that helped to add an extra level of excitement and romance to your earliest days.

Pick Out Jams the Crowd Will Love

Your significant other isn’t the only person with whom you’ve shared powerful moments of music. From concerts you went to with friends to the music that your family played throughout your youth, expand your scope beyond your relationship when it comes to selecting wedding songs. This is the main reason most weddings you’ve gone to don’t solely feature a soundtrack focused on the couple. To excite your guests, add crowd favorites to the list. If there are tunes guaranteed to get your crew up and dancing, those should be played.

Don’t Restrict Your Guests

Making requests is a common aspect of attending an event with a DJ or live musician. If you want your guests to have the most fun possible, then let them make suggestions whenever possible. There are bound to be some songs that you forgot to include that your friends and family will want to hear. By allowing the DJ to take requests, you make the event as fun as possible for all in attendance. 

Be Mindful of the Content

Musical taste is often quite subjective and dependent on an individual’s upbringing and exposure to certain genres. Older crowds, for example, tend to be more shocked by the content of modern hits. Conversely, younger audiences may find wedding staples and old tunes too boring to be fun. Try to remain mindful of the content of the music you pick to strike a balance. Variety is the spice of life, as they say, so use this to your advantage when curating a list of songs that should and shouldn’t be played. 

There are plenty of pressing decisions you will need to make when planning your nuptials. Thankfully, it’s not difficult to create a soundtrack you’ll remember for years to come. There are bound to be many great songs that are significant to your relationship. As long as you think over your options, you’ll have no trouble selecting tunes that perfectly underscore your big day from start to finish.