While millions of people have tied the knot while implementing different cultural influences and customs, the “something old, something new” tradition is one that continues to transcend boundaries. The old English rhyme was as follows:

Something old, something new,

Something borrowed, something blue,

And a sixpence for her shoe.

For many nuptials, the bride will wear items that are either old, new, borrowed or blue, gifted from family and friends. Traditionally, these gifts were meant to provide good fortune for the couple, to offer blessings on future children and to ward off evil spirits. LGBTQ+ couples may have multiple brides or none at all, but here are some ideas to consider if you’d like to partake in this classic custom.

Something Old

Typically, the “old” item was intended to protect any future offspring. Symbolically, this old item connects a bride to her family and the past. Family heirlooms such as jewelry or a grandmother’s gown were the items of choice. Many queer people may not have biological family involved and can choose something old that holds significance to the people of their chosen village instead. Incorporating vintage fashion and accessories into attire or décor can be a nice play on something old for LGBTQ+ couples. Consider shopping for repurposed pendants, cuff links or accessories.

Something New

“Something new” represents hope and optimism for the union. Wearing something new for the big day is relatively easy to accomplish. New attire usually takes care of the new items, but new wedding rings also check this box. If both partners are wearing suits or dresses, consider unifying your look with matching or coordinating accessories. You can go with something as simple as matching neckwear, or pocket squares with a monogram or new family name embroidered. Think about how you’d like to remember your wedding day in the future. Everyone loves a great anecdote, and new items provide the opportunity for you to add interest to your love story.

Something Borrowed

Historically, “something borrowed” was provided by another couple for good fortune. You may have married friends in your circle who are willing to loan items for your wedding. If you have other loved ones who have an eye for style and are open to lending, you could borrow something to wear from them. Strictly speaking, renting tuxedos or gowns takes care of the “something borrowed.” If you’re looking for alternatives, you can also rent accessories and other items of clothing online to put the right touch on your look.

Something Blue

Blue is commonly associated with purity and fidelity in this old rhyme. Blue wedding items symbolize a faithful union. From navy to cobalt to cyan and more, you have plenty of options when it comes to working blue into your apparel, either in the main outfit or through accessories. Blue nail polish and makeup can fulfil this part of the rhyme. Some weddings make blue a part of the décor as well to speak blessings of fidelity over the new couple. Consider blue blossoms for bouquets or in other floral arrangements used in the marriage ceremony or reception.

A Sixpence for the Shoe

Per the rhyme, the bride was to wear a silver sixpence on her left shoe for prosperity and financial security. It’s common for well-wishers to buy gifts and send money to a couple for the marriage ahead. You and your partner might want to specifically incorporate silver or coins in your attire or décor. A dime, nickel or quarter in penny loafers is a good way to put your special spin on this part of the tradition. LGBTQ+ couples are free to marry in the United States. They are also free to adopt and adapt any wedding custom for their special day, and the “something old, something new” tradition is no exception. The ideas presented here are just a few to help you envision what’s possible on the first day of forever.