Congratulations are in order! You’re ready to spend your life with that special someone and now you’ve got a wedding to plan. While some couples have the resources and backing to splurge on their big day, that may not be the case with you. Same-sex couples often have to face the reality of not having financial support from family for a wedding, so a budget-conscious ceremony is the way to go. Even if money is no object, a frugal event is still a good idea. Here are some considerations for your sensible yet special nuptials.

Plan Early and Often

When looking for ways to save money, it’s important to plan early. Coming up with a plan well in advance helps you consider all your options and identify ways to reduce costs that line up with your and your partner’s desires. Saving money requires a bit of creativity, and the more time you have, the better your chances of successfully implementing cost-saving ideas. It might seem counterintuitive to hire a wedding planner when you want to save money, but a professional will have great insights and resources when it comes to lowering your expenses.

Ditch Your Wedding Party

Your marriage ceremony is all about the nearlyweds. Instead of having a wedding party with attendants wearing special or custom attire, put the focus on you and your partner. There’s less pressure to find people to represent both sides of the family, and you can ditch the idea of coordinating outfits, bouquets and other items that cost money. Getting rid of a wedding party also works toward a more inclusive ceremony by removing the gender-based customs of having bridesmaids and groomsmen.

Get Creative With Vendors

Another way to save money is by finding budding vendors or talented, younger pros who are trying to build their experience. Instead of a seasoned photographer, seek out a less-experienced but capable person who wants to build their resume and will charge a lot less. A nearby college or cosmetology school may have students willing to do hair and makeup. Perhaps you have friends who offer these services. In lieu of gifts from a registry, some of these people may be willing to offer their services instead.

Find a Venue

The home of a friend or family member can be a great budget-conscious option as a place for the ceremony and reception. A large, beautiful house can provide a lovely backdrop for your nuptials. If weather permits, an outdoor ceremony at a park or in someone’s backyard is another possibility that’s easy on your wallet or pocketbook. Often formal wedding venues can be expensive, so venue selection is a great opportunity for serious savings.

Go Digital

One way to save expenses is by going digital when it comes to your wedding invitations. Take advantage of email and social media to reduce the cost of publicizing your special event. Consider creating an event page on a platform such as Facebook. Although you may have guests who aren’t on social media, you can cast a wide net for very little money. You can spend a little more money and use an online service such as Evite to invite friends via email and keep track of the RSVPs. 

Choose a Menu

Instead of a massive, multi-tiered cake and a full meal, consider individually portioned desserts and light bites for your reception menu. A local restaurant may be willing to cater your reception based on a limited menu and guest list. This is another area where someone you know may be willing to lend their services in lieu of a gift.

As an LGBTQ couple, you may be used to the idea of breaking from tradition when it comes to various aspects of life. As with any engaged couple, your wedding day is what you make of it. A budget-conscious same-sex wedding ceremony gives you the chance to be creative and intentional about living life on your own terms.